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		<title>By: Santa</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5927</link>
		<dc:creator>Santa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 03:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Terri on all counts, including blaming the amazingly wonderful Eloisa James for getting me into the whole blogsphere.  In my humble opinion, Squawk Radio set the bar for an engaging, informative and just plain fun blog site.

Do authors need a presence on the web?  Yes, to a certain degree.  But they need to keep up with it.  Update it from time to time.  Newsletters or emails work for me.  These little things show readers that they are important to you and your work.  It's also important to be honest about just how much web presence you can commit to and be realistic when you, the author, decides that. Ultimately, it is their books ultimately keep readers coming back for more but in this highly competative field every little bit counts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Terri on all counts, including blaming the amazingly wonderful Eloisa James for getting me into the whole blogsphere.  In my humble opinion, Squawk Radio set the bar for an engaging, informative and just plain fun blog site.</p>
<p>Do authors need a presence on the web?  Yes, to a certain degree.  But they need to keep up with it.  Update it from time to time.  Newsletters or emails work for me.  These little things show readers that they are important to you and your work.  It&#8217;s also important to be honest about just how much web presence you can commit to and be realistic when you, the author, decides that. Ultimately, it is their books ultimately keep readers coming back for more but in this highly competative field every little bit counts.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5926</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 00:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Janga, I have been reading your posts for years now. And never once do I recall you writing anything remotely arrogant or pompous. 
What you do project
Is a contagious sense of wonder at what the world has to offer…
And a commitment to sharing your knowledge with others.
To put it simply Janga, you are a Teacher. Yes I suppose that you “answer a lot of questions and share information”. But you also… How did Patricia Neal   put it? Ah yes: 
“A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though, awakens your own expectations.”
 You awaken me Janga. And you inspire me to push myself beyond Myself.

K. Patricia Cross  wrote:
“The task of the excellent teacher is to stimulate "apparently ordinary" people to unusual effort.  The tough problem is not in identifying winners:  it is in making winners out of ordinary people. “
Yes, you are quite excellent my dear. And I should know. As I am quite the most Ordinary of Woman. An ordinary woman who found her voice because of generous people like you.

Julie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Janga, I have been reading your posts for years now. And never once do I recall you writing anything remotely arrogant or pompous.<br />
What you do project<br />
Is a contagious sense of wonder at what the world has to offer…<br />
And a commitment to sharing your knowledge with others.<br />
To put it simply Janga, you are a Teacher. Yes I suppose that you “answer a lot of questions and share information”. But you also… How did Patricia Neal   put it? Ah yes:<br />
“A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though, awakens your own expectations.”<br />
 You awaken me Janga. And you inspire me to push myself beyond Myself.</p>
<p>K. Patricia Cross  wrote:<br />
“The task of the excellent teacher is to stimulate &#8220;apparently ordinary&#8221; people to unusual effort.  The tough problem is not in identifying winners:  it is in making winners out of ordinary people. “<br />
Yes, you are quite excellent my dear. And I should know. As I am quite the most Ordinary of Woman. An ordinary woman who found her voice because of generous people like you.</p>
<p>Julie</p>
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		<title>By: terrio</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5925</link>
		<dc:creator>terrio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 18:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eileen just wrapped up my blog in three sentences?  Why couldn't I do that? 

Damn hot air...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eileen just wrapped up my blog in three sentences?  Why couldn&#8217;t I do that? </p>
<p>Damn hot air&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Eileen</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5924</link>
		<dc:creator>Eileen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 18:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Overall I love blogging- but at times I worry that I'll say something that will offend someone (no, really? Me?) which is never my goal.  It's a tricky balance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Overall I love blogging- but at times I worry that I&#8217;ll say something that will offend someone (no, really? Me?) which is never my goal.  It&#8217;s a tricky balance.</p>
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		<title>By: terrio</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5923</link>
		<dc:creator>terrio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 16:21:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Janga - you too!  Thank goodness I'm not the only who tells myself to shut up. Then again, I don't think you talk nearly enough. :)  The catch is when you've visited a blog kind of regularly and commented then you don't have as much time so lurk or miss it for a while.  I'm always afraid they are going to think I didn't like them anymore or something.  Which is my natural tendency, to assume something paranoid and irrational.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Janga - you too!  Thank goodness I&#8217;m not the only who tells myself to shut up. Then again, I don&#8217;t think you talk nearly enough. <img src='http://romancewritersrevenge.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  The catch is when you&#8217;ve visited a blog kind of regularly and commented then you don&#8217;t have as much time so lurk or miss it for a while.  I&#8217;m always afraid they are going to think I didn&#8217;t like them anymore or something.  Which is my natural tendency, to assume something paranoid and irrational.</p>
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		<title>By: Janga</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5922</link>
		<dc:creator>Janga</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 16:04:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a favorite author whose online persona I find offputting, but I will not deny myself the pleasure of reading her books . On the other hand, I won't actively promote her as I used to.

As for Internet time, I have cut my regular blog/board sites to half a dozen with another several that I visit when I have time. Commenting regularly is time consuming, so I lurk more these days. I do worry about my own online persona. I fear that I sometimes come across as pompous and arrogant--qualities I loathe. But I am so conditioned to answering questions and sharing information that I do so first. Only later do I tell myself, "Just shut up, Janga!"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a favorite author whose online persona I find offputting, but I will not deny myself the pleasure of reading her books . On the other hand, I won&#8217;t actively promote her as I used to.</p>
<p>As for Internet time, I have cut my regular blog/board sites to half a dozen with another several that I visit when I have time. Commenting regularly is time consuming, so I lurk more these days. I do worry about my own online persona. I fear that I sometimes come across as pompous and arrogant&#8211;qualities I loathe. But I am so conditioned to answering questions and sharing information that I do so first. Only later do I tell myself, &#8220;Just shut up, Janga!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: terrio</title>
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		<dc:creator>terrio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 16:04:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hal - That "I talked to her!" thing is also a great thing we get with the internet. There are still big authors that you just can't talk with, but most are pretty easy to find and always happy to talk.  When they aren't on deadline, which is fine as that means we get more books.

About offending people, I'm sure I do it all the time.  Wording something wrong is all it takes.  Though it didn't happen often, I'd throw people a curve ball when I was still on the radio and hear about it being offensive later.  It was always unintentional but what can you say?  We're all human.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hal - That &#8220;I talked to her!&#8221; thing is also a great thing we get with the internet. There are still big authors that you just can&#8217;t talk with, but most are pretty easy to find and always happy to talk.  When they aren&#8217;t on deadline, which is fine as that means we get more books.</p>
<p>About offending people, I&#8217;m sure I do it all the time.  Wording something wrong is all it takes.  Though it didn&#8217;t happen often, I&#8217;d throw people a curve ball when I was still on the radio and hear about it being offensive later.  It was always unintentional but what can you say?  We&#8217;re all human.</p>
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		<title>By: haleigh</title>
		<link>http://romancewritersrevenge.com/2008/05/18/every-word-matters/#comment-5920</link>
		<dc:creator>haleigh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 15:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great topic, Terri!  I must confess, I have picked up new authors that I would have never found from learning about them on blogs (mostly here!).  And there is just something extra special about reading a fabulous book and being able to say "yeah, I talked to her and she responded!"  Personally, a good personality and an author willing to talk to their fans makes that author even more appealing.  

But for me, it doesn't go the other way.  If the writing's just not there, than no amount of great personality will make me keep reading.  However, I would never recommend a friend not read a book if the author is sweet and has a great personality.  I'd just feel terrible :)  So that's one positive, I guess.

But I do have the same fears about talking in cyber-space.  I'm sarcastic too, so I only make jokes with people I know well, who I know will take it the right way.  Even being careful, I'm sure I've offended somebody along the way!  With all the different ways typed-out words can be taken, how do you ever make sure that you don't offend anyone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great topic, Terri!  I must confess, I have picked up new authors that I would have never found from learning about them on blogs (mostly here!).  And there is just something extra special about reading a fabulous book and being able to say &#8220;yeah, I talked to her and she responded!&#8221;  Personally, a good personality and an author willing to talk to their fans makes that author even more appealing.  </p>
<p>But for me, it doesn&#8217;t go the other way.  If the writing&#8217;s just not there, than no amount of great personality will make me keep reading.  However, I would never recommend a friend not read a book if the author is sweet and has a great personality.  I&#8217;d just feel terrible <img src='http://romancewritersrevenge.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  So that&#8217;s one positive, I guess.</p>
<p>But I do have the same fears about talking in cyber-space.  I&#8217;m sarcastic too, so I only make jokes with people I know well, who I know will take it the right way.  Even being careful, I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ve offended somebody along the way!  With all the different ways typed-out words can be taken, how do you ever make sure that you don&#8217;t offend anyone?</p>
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		<title>By: terrio</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 15:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lindsey - I do believe you have to have the writing to back up the personality.  But the personality alone is good for first time authors.  They need to get that first one into hands to get the following and really win them over.

And that's the crux, a snarky author may write great books, but they won't get read much if she offends too many people.  Or she could be sweet as can be and one off the cuff remark came across wrong.  It's such a tightrope!

In the case of AuthorTalk, they are very funny.  But I'm not sure how much that's actually promoting books.  They are entertaining though.  And that's kind of a fun outlet to take advantage of a different form of creativity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lindsey - I do believe you have to have the writing to back up the personality.  But the personality alone is good for first time authors.  They need to get that first one into hands to get the following and really win them over.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s the crux, a snarky author may write great books, but they won&#8217;t get read much if she offends too many people.  Or she could be sweet as can be and one off the cuff remark came across wrong.  It&#8217;s such a tightrope!</p>
<p>In the case of AuthorTalk, they are very funny.  But I&#8217;m not sure how much that&#8217;s actually promoting books.  They are entertaining though.  And that&#8217;s kind of a fun outlet to take advantage of a different form of creativity.</p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lindsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 14:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great blog, Terri. This topic has been on my mind a lot lately. Though I, too, buy into the "I want to support authors I like as people" hype, a part of me finds this new trend worrisome. It's an amazing experience to find that a book you connected with has been written by a person you can connect with, but when did it become all about the author rather than the book? These days there's so much emphasis on who has an awesome blog/message board, the most MySpace friends, or the funniest video. 

I'm with you - it's awesome to see great people like Anna and Toni succeeding. They're lucky enough to be the entire package - winning personalities and beyond-fabulous books. But what about really nice, kind people who are mediocre writers? Or brusque, socially awkward people who write amazing books? As the market gets more and more competitive - and authors take on greater celebrity status - I wonder if we'll reach the day when just being a great writer isn't enough.

I also wonder about the importance of persona - what if you're not what you write? We can't all be J.R. Ward. Even Anna's a great example - her hilariously witty blogs aren't necessarily the best representation of her dark, angst-y plots. And everyone's so enamored of AuthorTalk lately - though I find it amusing, I'm not sure that Gena Showalter's interpretive dancing does much to convince me I'll like her writing. 

But I'm fascinated by the whole trend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great blog, Terri. This topic has been on my mind a lot lately. Though I, too, buy into the &#8220;I want to support authors I like as people&#8221; hype, a part of me finds this new trend worrisome. It&#8217;s an amazing experience to find that a book you connected with has been written by a person you can connect with, but when did it become all about the author rather than the book? These days there&#8217;s so much emphasis on who has an awesome blog/message board, the most MySpace friends, or the funniest video. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m with you - it&#8217;s awesome to see great people like Anna and Toni succeeding. They&#8217;re lucky enough to be the entire package - winning personalities and beyond-fabulous books. But what about really nice, kind people who are mediocre writers? Or brusque, socially awkward people who write amazing books? As the market gets more and more competitive - and authors take on greater celebrity status - I wonder if we&#8217;ll reach the day when just being a great writer isn&#8217;t enough.</p>
<p>I also wonder about the importance of persona - what if you&#8217;re not what you write? We can&#8217;t all be J.R. Ward. Even Anna&#8217;s a great example - her hilariously witty blogs aren&#8217;t necessarily the best representation of her dark, angst-y plots. And everyone&#8217;s so enamored of AuthorTalk lately - though I find it amusing, I&#8217;m not sure that Gena Showalter&#8217;s interpretive dancing does much to convince me I&#8217;ll like her writing. </p>
<p>But I&#8217;m fascinated by the whole trend.</p>
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